How to not be single anymore.
So you are college age, you are a nice guy, you have a job, and a deep desire to finally have a girlfriend. You look around your college campus see tons of potential but you simply have no idea why you don't have a date for tonight. We are going to change all of that right now.
1. Allow this genius kid to teach you to be a gentleman, women don't date boys, they date men, be a man! like this kid. make yourself pleasant to be around, hang out with friends (women should be in that group) and pick out the one you like.
2. Ask God for his opinion, if you are a true man you will not pursue a relationship if you two are not compatible and if God said no. This might be new to you but believe me it will save you a lot of heart ache and will keep you from getting involved with a woman that wont be your mate. Remember, we are learning to be men here, not players.
3. Have some resolve man! Quit starting relationships to "see what happens", if you want to date a girl then be straight about it, ask her on a date and quit lollygagging. If she says no, then don't stick around to see if she changes her mind. Only one thing will happen when a guys has a romantic relationship in mind and the girl does not, its called the FRIEND ZONE.
4. So you prayed, God gave you two thumbs up, she is compatible with you and your faith, you guys have being on a couple of awesome dates and you are all excited. well what are you waiting for? Ask her on another date and tell her your intentions after the date, tell her you like her, that she is awesome, that you prayed about it and that you wish to pursue a committed relationship with her.
5. She said she felt the same way!, Way to go killer. Now you are in a committed relationship. Be ready to get jokes from your bros, spend a lot of money (did i mention that should have a job) and have over all a very happy and positive out look in life.
How long should you date before you propose? well that's an other story for another blog, for now,take it slow, enjoy this state of your relationship and be honest with each other. and best of all pat your self on the back because guess what? you are not single any more.
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